Posted by Danny MacDonald on 2021 Jun 15th
Petting is one of the simple joys of owning a cat. It's an excellent way to de-stress and show affection to your cat. But there's more to petting than simply wrapping your arms around your cat and gently stroking them. For cats, petting is a love language all its own but with governing rules.
Some cats enjoy petting once in a while. Others, not so much. You may be wondering, what's the best way to pet your cat and show them love, while respecting their boundaries?
Here we explore the art of effectively petting your fur baby:
Identify If Your Cat Likes Touch
Petting your cat can be a hard one to call. It's easy to misjudge your kitty's signals and end up touching them in the wrong way, in the wrong spot, or petting them when they're disinterested in physical touch.
Naturally, humans are social beings who enjoy physical touch and affection. On the other hand, cats have a wild ancestry and a solitary lifestyle. Even today, they're still inclined to behave that way, explaining why some cats find physical touch and affection somewhat overwhelming.
As such, it's crucial to understand when to pet your cat and determine whether they're enjoying it. If your cat shows any signs that they don't want to be touched, stop. Sometimes petting your cat against their will can lead to petting-induced aggression.
Signs of Cat Enjoyment:
Signs of Cat Displeasure:
Pro Tip: Your cat may want to be petted at one time but not another. Let kitty make the first move. After that, analyze their body language during the encounter.
How To Pet a Cat?
Each cat is an individual, and there isn't any perfect spot to pet a cat. It's therefore up to you to find the right place/s to pet your cat. Here are a few pointers to keep in mind when finding the best place to pet any cat.
Benefits of Petting Your Cat
Petting offers both you and your cat a ton of benefits, including:
The Bottom Line
Petting is a beautiful way to bring you and your feline friend closer. However, not every cat finds petting pleasurable. Always be sure to check in with your cat's signals when it comes to petting and identify what works best for your cat.
More importantly, let your cat initiate the petting sessions to avoid any space invasion or aggression.